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Homeschooling texts – what is okay?
Posted by: | CommentsAt the risk of making my blood pressure rise drastically, I’m going to share something with you. A fellow homeschool mom sent me this link the other day. It is a poll for people to vote about whether or not homeschool textbooks should be able to dismiss the theory of evolution.
Right off the bat I was a little irritated, I didn’t like how the question was worded – it sounds biased against homeschoolers from the get-go. Homeschoolers aren’t the only ones using Christian/creation based textbooks – many private schools do as well. And that wasn’t the point of the question anyway. In my opinion, a better question, and less biased, might have been, “Do you believe it is okay for a textbook to teach the theory of evolution as a theory only and not as fact.” Because that’s what they want to know right? But the way they worded the question not only brings out all the creation haters but the homeschool haters as well. There are people that would answer the question against homeschoolers no matter what the question was. So, in my mind, the results are already skewed. (And I haven’t even touched on the fact that the books they are referring to (Apologia) do NOT dismiss the theory of evolution but teach it as just that – a theory.)
Here are some direct quotes, copied and pasted from the poll, of some of the ridiculous comments just to prove my point:
- It’s one thing to keep yourself stupid, but please stop dumbing down the future of the country.
- Sure. It’s home school do what you want. When it comes time for my kid to compete with ignorant home schooled kids she will eat their lunch
- This is the sort of abuse that really calls into question the whole practice of unmonitored home schooling
- Home schooled kids do not need a reality based education if all they are going to do is grown up and work in the fast food industry.
- Most home-schooling exists to perpetuate bigotry, religion, & other stupidity.
- makes you wonder what else they are dismissing in their attempt to keep their kids from thinking on their own
Seriously??? I wish I could sit down and have a conversation with these people. According to them, I am stupid, ignorant, a child abuser, and a bigot. And my children are stupid, abused, incapable of thinking on their own, and unable to get a decent job. And this is just a small sampling of the comments! I wonder if they’ve ever even met a homeschooler in person. I will never understand how people can make such hateful statements to an entire group of people (THAT THEY DON’T EVEN KNOW!) simply because they don’t do things the same way. While I do find fault with the public school system and the poor job it seems to be doing as a whole, I would never make a blanket statement that ‘all kids who go to public schools are ignorant’ or any of the other things people say about homeschoolers. It constantly amazes me how much stupidity, ignorance, and hate there is regarding homeschooling. All we are doing is educating our own children! Why are people so threatened by that???
The thing that is the most galling is that statistics show that homeschoolers far outscore their public school counterparts. Here is some information from the National Home Education Research Institute:
The home-educated typically score 15 to 30 percentile points above public-school students on standardized academic achievement tests. (The public school average is the 50th percentile; scores range from 1 to 99.)
Homeschool students score above average on achievement tests regardless of their parents’ level of formal education or their family’s household income.
Whether homeschool parents were ever certified teachers is not related to their children’s academic achievement.
Degree of state control and regulation of homeschooling is not related to academic achievement.
Home-educated students typically score above average on the SAT and ACT tests that colleges consider for admissions.
Homeschool students are increasingly being actively recruited by colleges.
That sounds to me like the homeschoolers are the ones with the better education, the better chance at better jobs, and the ones that do know how to use their minds. I can use my own kids as an example as well. And I’m not doing this to brag but to prove a point. Standardized testing is not required of homeschoolers in our state so we had never participated in it up until a couple of years ago. I don’t like tests like that because I feel there are so many better ways to measure what a child has learned than sitting them down with a paper with a bunch of dots to fill in. Not all kids test well and not all things taught are going to be covered on those tests. Regardless of my opinion of them though, I decided to let my kids take one a couple of years ago. My daughter was interested in seeing how she would do and I thought it probably wouldn’t hurt to see how she scored. Well, both of my kids (who have been homeschooled almost all the way through school – my son went to public school Kindergarten and my daughter went to public school through 1st grade and they are now in 9th and 11th respectively) scored in the 99th percentile – and that’s including all of the standardized tests taken in the nation – public schools included.
I can even go one step further. My daughter took the ACT at the beginning of this school year (her junior year) just as a practice so she could figure out what it would be like and be better prepared her senior year so that she could give it her best at that time. Well, she went in and took it and came away with a 29. In case you aren’t familiar with the ACT, a 36 is a perfect score and the average score is a 20. Needless to say, we had a little celebration the day we got her results in the mail! I’m anxious to see how well she does when she takes it again after completing all of this year’s school work – things that were on the test that we hadn’t even gotten to yet since she took it early!
I say all of this to say one thing – homeschooling works. There may be a lot of people who don’t understand it and a lot of people who wouldn’t do it themselves but that doesn’t mean that we are doing anything wrong. It doesn’t mean that we are abusing our children. It doesn’t mean that we aren’t teaching our kids to think for themselves and that they aren’t growing up to be very bright individuals and becoming great contributors to society. And it doesn’t even mean that we aren’t teaching our kids what evolution is!
That started out being the whole point to this post but I got a little sidetracked.
I do want to share a few of the ridiculous comments in regards to the original question on the poll though:
- It’s just as o.k. for home-school textbooks to dismiss the holocaust or to state that the earth is the center of the universe.
Do people really think that because we aren’t willing to have evolution shoved down our throats as fact when there is NO evidence to support it that we are going to deny the holocaust or that our universe is heliocentric? There is overwhelming evidence to support those!
- Teaching Evangelical Christian beliefs as science should constitute child abuse, as it deliberately deprives children of quality education.
WOW! Again with the child abuse thing? And I think I’ve already proven that my children have received a quality education – even by YOUR standards.
- Is it okay for home-school textbooks to teach 2+2=5 or that a verb is really a noun? Our children need to be educated, not indoctrinated.
Umm… isn’t that what virtually every public school in America does? Indoctrinate kids to believe a certain way? Do they teach both sides and let the child choose or do they shove evolution down their throat and say it’s the ONLY right answer?
- Actually, yes, but only if they also give equal time to the Tooth fairy, Leprechauns, and also explain how Noah got dinosaurs onto the Ark
When you can’t come up with a logical reason for something, throw out stupid, moronic comments. geez! And I’m pretty sure Noah didn’t take the largest available animal when he put each kind on the ark. I’m thinking he probably took babies and animals that had not reached full maturity yet.
- Science isn’t about justifying or proving theology, it’s about discovering the truth.
Amen! I agree. But when the truth points you away from evolution you need to be willing to pay attention instead of sweeping that under the rug and firing anyone who dares say something different.
And what did I answer on the poll? Even though I didn’t like the wording of the question, I knew what they were going for so I answered yes. Homeschoolers, as well as anyone else in this country, have the right to purchase any book they want and teach what they believe to be true. Interestingly enough, as I believe I pointed out earlier, the Apologia books (which started this debate I think) do not dismiss the theory of evolution. They present the evidence and facts that exist and leave the student to decide. We’ve used these books all through middle and high school so I am familiar with them.
I believe in teaching what evolution is but I believe in teaching creationism as true. The Bible makes much more sense to me than Darwin’s theory of evolution. It’s okay if others don’t agree and want to teach something different. I’m not going to try to force you to teach what I believe and you shouldn’t try to force me.
I stand firm on the word of God though and He says that one day every knee will bow and every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord. I believe that to be true and I would rather do that now by choice than wait until Judgment day and say it because it’s the only option left. One day the Truth will be known.
I think I’ve said enough now. If you’re still reading, thanks for “listening” to my rant.
Beth Moore
Posted by: | CommentsI know Beth Moore has been around for awhile and I know a lot of women have read her books, done her Bible studies, and attended her events but I have not been one of them. Until this month. And she is FABULOUS! I wish I had been introduced to her stuff sooner!!! I am now anxious to check out some more of her stuff!! Have any of you ever done any of her Bible studies? If so, which one did you like best?
Book reveiw: The Karma of Jesus
Posted by: | CommentsI realize that this book has been on this site for awhile as a book I’m reading. I obviously haven’t been reading it for months but just haven’t taken the time to work on this blog and update things. Well, it’s definitely time for that!
Here is my review of this book that has been a long time coming!
Title: The Karma of Jesus
Author: Mark Herringshaw
ISBN: 978-0-7642-0734-1
Genre: Non-Fiction; Religious; Spirituality
Pages: 206
Publisher: Bethany House
Rating: 4 stars
This was a GREAT book! I have to admit I was skeptical of it at first simply because of the title. There seem to be so many people nowadays mixing religions and making up their own as well as saying that any path you choose is the right path. I’m tired of that kind of gobbleygook (don’t you love my description of it! haha!) and I want a book by an author who knows Truth and isn’t afraid to talk about it. Well, this book delivered in my opinion. Mark Herringshaw does a good job of teaching about Christ and the love that He gave to us. He compares the concept of karma with the forgiveness that we receive from God and explains how we can receive God’s perfect love and forgiveness. He weaves some wonderful stories into the book and it’s actually one of those books that was hard to put down! I would highly recommend it!!
Book Review: Lavender and Peach
Posted by: | CommentsTitle: Lavender & Peach
Author: Mae O’Steen-Grant
ISBN: 978-1-4327-3910-2
Genre: Religion, Christian Life
Pages: 257
Publisher: OutskirtsPress.com
Rating: 2 stars
I’m really sorry to say that I just really didn’t get this book. It seemed to just go in circles and I felt very confused the whole time I was reading it. I only read part of the book as I could not figure out exactly what the point was. I finally just decided I needed to move on to something else. So, unfortunately, this book is not a book I would recommend.
Church – is it for believers or seekers?
Posted by: | CommentsAndy Stanley was the guest speaker at our church this weekend and while I really appreciated his message and what he had to say, there were some things he said that I didn’t totally agree with. I don’t know if I just didn’t get what he was trying to say or if he really meant it the way I took it.
The point of the message was that there is a place for everyone at church – it doesn’t matter who you are or what you’ve done, there is a place for you. I wholeheartedly agree with that. Everyone should be welcomed when they step into a church.
The part that I had a problem with was at the beginning. He started his sermon by saying that local churches need to be careful about not making church a place for “church people” – an “insider” thing – that they shouldn’t do things or say things that might make someone who has never been in church uncomfortable, that we need to make sure that we don’t use language that these same people would not be able to understand, and things like that.
This is where I disagree with him. It seems to me that the main function of the church is for believers to gather in order to worship God and fellowship with one another. It’s a time to come together each week and refocus ourselves and make sure that we are living as God wants us to be. It’s a time for teaching and learning but most of all – for worshipping.
While I believe that taking people to church is a fabulous thing to do and great way to try to evangelize, I don’t believe that churches should be designed for unbelievers. Yes, we need to take the time to welcome them; yes, we need to take the time to explain things they might not understand; but no, we should not be watering things down so as not to make someone uncomfortable who might be there just checking things out.
There are all kinds of programs and classes we can set up for unbelievers, new Christians, or people just checking things out. A classroom setting or a small group setting, in my opinion, is a better way to get things on a level that someone who has not grown up in church might feel comfortable with and be able understand.
Corporate worship should be just that – worship. And that’s something believers do.
What are your thoughts on the matter? Do you agree or do you see things differently? You can even watch his message and get your own personal take on what he said. The part I’m talking about is only about the first five or ten minutes of the message. Come back and let me know if you do! I’d love to know what others think about it!
How would you introduce Jesus?
Posted by: | CommentsI saw this video on Facebook and had to share. WOW! That’s the first word that comes to mind! Awesome is the second!
Book review: Darwin’s Racists
Posted by: | CommentsTitle: Darwin’s Racists: Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow
Author: Sharon Sebastian & Raymond G. Bohlin
ISBN: 978-1-60264-393-2
Genre: Religion, Christian Life, Science
Pages: 216 pages
Publisher: Virtualbookworm.com Publishing, INC.
Rating: 4 stars (you can look here to read about my rating system)
From the back of the book:
Who are you? Where did you come from? Are you being told the truth? How does what you believe link you to the world’s worst mass murderers, being judged by the color of your skin, super babies of the future, and today’s school curriculum?
Mere generations ago, a man named Charles Darwin introduced his Theory of Evolution which permeates today’s society. Its premise is that some groups of people are less evolved than others and, therefore, inferior. As a result, millions have died when targeted by race, class or disability.
There are those who say that this same philosophy, that helped fuel Hitler’s ovens, has crept into America’s school system when no one was watching. Others contend that evolution, which was rooted in racist and class elitism and is today being taught, makes some of us superior and more “fit” to live on the planet. Are you fit enough? Is your family fit enough? Who survives? Who decides?
In America, are we one nation under God or one nation under Darwin? As two worldviews of race and class collide, it is time to decide what you believe regardless of your social status or the color of your skin.
This books does a fabulous job of pointing out the flaws in Darwin’s Theory of Evolution. They delve into many areas that some scientists have claimed as fact when, in fact, they have not been proven to be so – they are ideas that are pure speculation. They also do a great job pointing out many problems that have arisen, not only in our society, but in other societies of the world since Darwin first presented his theory.
There are many great quotes in this book, there are two I’d love to share here.
Spurgeon quickly noted a double standard that was pro-evolution and anti-creation and used sarcasm to criticize Darwin’s unproven theory. In his monthly magazine, The Sword and the Trowel, Spurgeon wrote the following to all those who recognized God as Creator.
“You are not to be dogmatic in theology, but for scientific men it is the correct thing. You are never to assert anything very strongly; but scientists may boldly assert what they cannot prove, which may demand a faith more credulous than any we possess.” Charles Spurgeon
With what he calls almost seemingly endless attacks on religion – through lawsuits, misleading television programs and a bias towards the faith of Darwinism, Author and President of Amerisearch, William J. Federer sees an alarming irony.
“Religion provides social order and tolerance for all people. Now, in America, everyone is tolerated except the ones who came up with the idea.”
These are just two of many great thoughts shared in this book. If you are interested in learning about how the Theory of Evolution has shaped our world this book is a great book for you to read. It is packed full of great information and great quotes. (If you are interested, you can click on the title above and it will take you to Amazon to purchase the book.)
I do have to add one negative because I’m a bit of a grammar freak. When using quotation marks the rule is that periods and commas ALWAYS go inside of the quotation marks. It doesn’t matter if the quotation marks are part of the whole sentence or just around one word at the end – they ALWAYS go inside the quotation marks. Numerous times in the book the authors have commas and periods outside of the quotation marks. I know, I know – you’re probably thinking, “Who cares!” Well, I’m sorry, but I do.
Book review and giveaway – Reading Your Male
Posted by: | CommentsTitle: Reading Your Male: An Invitation to Understand and Influence Your Man’s Sexuality

Author: Mary Farrar
ISBN: 978-1-4347-6871-1
Genre: Religion, Christian Life, Women
Pages: 303 pages
Publisher: David C. Cook
Rating: 4 stars (you can look here to read about my rating system)
Mary Farrar has written a fabulous book with a peek into the male mind. After much research, she does a fabulous job in this book of explaining how our men think, what they expect out of life and marriage, what issues they struggle with, and how we, as their wives, can best be their helpmate. Men and women are so different in their thinking and their emotions and I would recommend that every wife or soon-to-be wife read this book. It can be a tremendous help to your marriage to understand what your husbands needs are and how to best fulfill your role as his wife. The most important aspect of this book, in my opinion, is that everything she says is from a Biblical standpoint – she explains how to fight the enemy with God’s truths.
I received this book from Phenix & Phenix and they were kind enough to send a couple of copies so that I could have a giveaway! So, I’m excited to announce my very first giveaway on this site!
- For 1 entry eligibility, just leave me a comment – you can just say, “I want to learn more about my man” if you want
- For 2 entries, leave a comment and also subscribe to my blog through email by entering your email address in the subscription box at the sidebar then come back and leave another comment letting me know you did so
- For 3 entries, do both of the above and twitter or blog about this blog post leaving a third comment letting me know you did this as well.
I will have a drawing next Wednesday, September 30th, for both books. I will e-mail you at the e-mail address you use to comment to let you know you have won and to get your mailing address.



