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Today is the celebration of an amazing day in history.  It marks the day that Jesus conquered death and Satan once and for all.  He was resurrected just as it was foretold in Scripture and conquered death to save us from our sins.

If you were not able to attend a church service today or were just not willing, I would invite you to Life Church online today and for the rest of this week.  Pastor Craig gave an amazing message today, as he does every week, and I think you would really learn a lot from it.  Please, take a few minutes out of your day and watch this powerful message!!

(Once this week has passed you may find it as the fifth week in the Red Letter Day series in the archives.)

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I’ve been thinking about marriage lately.  I wrote some posts awhile back about adultery and those are continually my most read posts (you can read them here if you wish – part 1, part 2, and part 3).   I’m not sure if I should be sad about that or glad.  On one hand, I’m sad because that means that a lot of people are dealing with adultery, which I know should not be a shocker to me but still…I hate that for them.   On the other hand, I’m glad that people are searching for answers and I can only pray that maybe something that they find and read, whether it be here or elsewhere, will help them make the decision NOT to commit adultery.

I say all of that to say that marriage is not a piece of cake.  It’s not just something that you decide to do one day and life is pure bliss for the rest of your days.  Marriage is hard work, marriage requires compromise, marriage requires sacrifice, and most of all marriage requires a choice - a choice to love.  Many people think that when you “fall in love” that those emotions that you have at that time will last forever.  Then when those feelings start to change, because I can guarantee you they will, they decide that they aren’t “in love” anymore and they walk away from what used to be a good marriage. Emotions change over time – they go up and down and never stay constant.  Love is not an emotion – it is a choice.

Marriage is something you have to actively participate in every day, you have to actively make the decision to love your spouse, you have to be fully committed to upholding the vows that you made on your wedding day.  I’m not trying to make it sound like it’s always a hard thing to do – most days it’s a very easy thing to do!  But there are those days where we are struggling and we are mad and we are wondering what we got ourselves into!  ;)   On those days, it’s vitally important that you make the choice to love.

My husband and I have been married for nineteen years.  We have had a lot of hard times, a lot of struggles in our marriage, but we have actively made the choice to choose love.  We have agreed that we will stick together no matter what.  We made a commitment to each other nineteen years ago and we have both agreed to stand behind that decision and not waiver from it.  Has it been hard?  At times.  Has it been worth it?  ABSOLUTELY!  We have an amazing marriage, we have an awesome relationship with one another, and we have the greatest family one could ask for.  You see, because of the commitment we have made to each other we have provided a safe and loving family for our children.  They don’t have to worry about one of us ever leaving, they don’t have to worry about whether or not we love each other – they can see it by the way we have chosen to live our lives – by choosing love.

So, what will you choose?  Will it be love and marriage?

I found a blog today called Sarah Markley that I think I’m really going to like. The first post I read was a guest post written by Lacey Keigley and it was about beauty’s standard.  I then discovered that it was a series Sarah was doing and she has several women writing guest posts this week on beauty.

The first one really spoke to me though because I have had similar struggles.  I struggle with not feeling beautiful and not feeling like I look “good” to the world around me.  When I was growing up I was very thin and never had to worry about weight, now that I’m older and have had children I have a weight problem.  It’s not like my weight is out of control or anything but I’m not happy with it.  I also have a thyroid problem and that’s where part of my struggle is – I don’t know if I am even capable of being a thin person anymore.  I haven’t tried to deal with the problem as much as I should have for the last few years but for a long time I did – I ate right, exercised daily, and did things like I was supposed to… and I never lost the weight.  I just kind of gave up and figured why bother!  I don’t really know how much of it is mental and how much of it is physical.  I WANT to work at it, I WANT to eat right, I WANT to exercise, I WANT to lose weight but life has just gotten in the way.   Any maybe with my thyroid condition this is as good as it gets??  I’m not eve sure.

Another issue I have with my “beauty” is my skin.  I have always had skin that breaks out – some days are better than others and it can actually look pretty decent sometimes but sometimes I break out like a teenager.  I’m 38 years old for crying out loud!  I think it’s time to have nice smooth skin for a change!  I’m going to have acne and wrinkles at the same time the way things are going and that’s just ridiculous!  So… that bothers me too.  Can you tell? :)

My hair is another issue.  I can’t stand it.  It’s straight as a board, no body, no life.  I have to wash it every day because it gets so oily.  That’s the part that bothers me the most.  If I go more than 24 hours it looks like I haven’t washed my hair in a week!  I can’t figure out how to fix that – or if I even can!  I see all of these women with gorgeous hair that has body and life, that has style, and that isn’t hanging flat against their head by the end of the day and I WANT IT!!

Beauty shouldn’t be what SOCIETY says it should be though.  True beauty is what GOD says is beautiful.  Treating others well is beautiful, taking care of our family is beautiful, showing others the love of Jesus is beautiful, and living our lives in a way that is pleasing to God is beautiful.  Those are the things that matter more.  But we, as women, really struggle with that I think.  Our society places so much emphasis on what a woman looks like and has such a strict definition of what beauty is that we fall into that trap of believing that that’s all that matters, of believing that the models and actresses reflect reality for the average woman.  It’s simply not true!

We will be much better off if we can shed that image we have created for ourselves – the one that, for me, says we have to be pencil thin with gorgeous skin and gorgeous hair.  I need to trust in God and know that if I am pleasing to Him then I am doing well.

Just as Lacey shared in her post: “Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”  (Psalm 31:30)

If you want to read more about what others think of beauty and how they deal with it please click the links above or the button below.

I hope you have a beautiful day!

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At the risk of making my blood pressure rise drastically, I’m going to share something with you.  A fellow homeschool mom sent me this link the other day.  It is a poll for people to vote about whether or not homeschool textbooks should be able to dismiss the theory of evolution.

Right off the bat I was a little irritated, I didn’t like how the question was worded – it sounds biased against homeschoolers from the get-go.  Homeschoolers aren’t the only ones using Christian/creation based textbooks – many private schools do as well.  And that wasn’t the point of the question anyway.  In my opinion, a better question, and less biased, might have been, “Do you believe it is okay for a textbook to teach the theory of evolution as a theory only and not as fact.”  Because that’s what they want to know right?  But the way they worded the question not only brings out all the creation haters but the homeschool haters as well.  There are people that would answer the question against homeschoolers no matter what the question was.  So, in my mind, the results are already skewed.  (And I haven’t even touched on the fact that the books they are referring to (Apologia) do NOT dismiss the theory of evolution but teach it as just that – a theory.)

Here are some direct quotes, copied and pasted from the poll, of some of the ridiculous comments just to prove my point:

  • It’s one thing to keep yourself stupid, but please stop dumbing down the future of the country.
  • Sure. It’s home school do what you want. When it comes time for my kid to compete with ignorant home schooled kids she will eat their lunch
  • This is the sort of abuse that really calls into question the whole practice of unmonitored home schooling
  • Home schooled kids do not need a reality based education if all they are going to do is grown up and work in the fast food industry.
  • Most home-schooling exists to perpetuate bigotry, religion, & other stupidity.
  • makes you wonder what else they are dismissing in their attempt to keep their kids from thinking on their own

Seriously???  I wish I could sit down and have a conversation with these people.  According to them, I am stupid, ignorant, a child abuser, and a bigot.  And my children are stupid, abused, incapable of thinking on their own, and unable to get a decent job.  And this is just a small sampling of the comments!  I wonder if they’ve ever even met a homeschooler in person.  I will never understand how people can make such hateful statements to an entire group of people (THAT THEY DON’T EVEN KNOW!) simply because they don’t do things the same way.  While I do find fault with the public school system and the poor job it seems to be doing as a whole, I would never make a blanket statement that ‘all kids who go to public schools are ignorant’ or any of the other things people say about homeschoolers.  It constantly amazes me how much stupidity, ignorance, and hate there is regarding homeschooling.  All we are doing is educating our own children!  Why are people so threatened by that???

The thing that is the most galling is that statistics show that homeschoolers far outscore their public school counterparts.  Here is some information from the National Home Education Research Institute:

The home-educated typically score 15 to 30 percentile points above public-school students on standardized academic achievement tests. (The public school average is the 50th percentile; scores range from 1 to 99.)

Homeschool students score above average on achievement tests regardless of their parents’ level of formal education or their family’s household income.

Whether homeschool parents were ever certified teachers is not related to their children’s academic achievement.

Degree of state control and regulation of homeschooling is not related to academic achievement.

Home-educated students typically score above average on the SAT and ACT tests that colleges consider for admissions.

Homeschool students are increasingly being actively recruited by colleges.

- Dr. Brian D. Ray from NHERI

That sounds to me like the homeschoolers are the ones with the better education, the better chance at better jobs, and the ones that do know how to use their minds.  I can use my own kids as an example as well.  And I’m not doing this to brag but to prove a point.  Standardized testing is not required of homeschoolers in our state so we had never participated in it up until a couple of years ago.  I don’t like tests like that because I feel there are so many better ways to measure what a child has learned than sitting them down with a paper with a bunch of dots to fill in.  Not all kids test well and not all things taught are going to be covered on those tests.  Regardless of my opinion of them though, I decided to let my kids take one a couple of years ago.  My daughter was interested in seeing how she would do and I thought it probably wouldn’t hurt to see how she scored.  Well, both of my kids (who have been homeschooled almost all the way through school – my son went to public school Kindergarten and my daughter went to public school through 1st grade and they are now in 9th and 11th respectively) scored in the 99th percentile – and that’s including all of the standardized tests taken in the nation – public schools included.

I can even go one step further.  My daughter took the ACT at the beginning of this school year (her junior year) just as a practice so she could figure out what it would be like and be better prepared her senior year so that she could give it her best at that time.  Well, she went in and took it and came away with a 29.  In case you aren’t familiar with the ACT, a 36 is a perfect score and the average score is a 20.  Needless to say, we had a little celebration the day we got her results in the mail!  I’m anxious to see how well she does when she takes it again after completing all of this year’s school work – things that were on the test that we hadn’t even gotten to yet since she took it early!

I say all of this to say one thing – homeschooling works.  There may be a lot of people who don’t understand it and a lot of people who wouldn’t do it themselves but that doesn’t mean that we are doing anything wrong.  It doesn’t mean that we are abusing our children.  It doesn’t mean that we aren’t teaching our kids to think for themselves and that they aren’t growing up to be very bright individuals and becoming great contributors to society.    And it doesn’t even mean that we aren’t teaching our kids what evolution is!

That started out being the whole point to this post but I got a little sidetracked. :)   I do want to share a few of the ridiculous comments in regards to the original question on the poll though:

  • It’s just as o.k. for home-school textbooks to dismiss the holocaust or to state that the earth is the center of the universe.

Do people really think that because we aren’t willing to have evolution shoved down our throats as fact when there is NO evidence to support it that we are going to deny the holocaust or that our universe is heliocentric?  There is overwhelming evidence to support those!

  • Teaching Evangelical Christian beliefs as science should constitute child abuse, as it deliberately deprives children of quality education.

WOW!  Again with the child abuse thing?  And I think I’ve already proven that my children have received a quality education – even by YOUR standards.

  • Is it okay for home-school textbooks to teach 2+2=5 or that a verb is really a noun? Our children need to be educated, not indoctrinated.

Umm… isn’t that what virtually every public school in America does?  Indoctrinate kids to believe a certain way?  Do they teach both sides and let the child choose or do they shove evolution down their throat and say it’s the ONLY right answer?

  • Actually, yes, but only if they also give equal time to the Tooth fairy, Leprechauns, and also explain how Noah got dinosaurs onto the Ark

When you can’t come up with a logical reason for something, throw out stupid, moronic comments.  geez!  And I’m pretty sure Noah didn’t take the largest available animal when he put each kind on the ark.  I’m thinking he probably took babies and animals that had not reached full maturity yet.

  • Science isn’t about justifying or proving theology, it’s about discovering the truth.

Amen!  I agree.  But when the truth points you away from evolution you need to be willing to pay attention instead of sweeping that under the rug and firing anyone who dares say something different.

And what did I answer on the poll?  Even though I didn’t like the wording of the question, I knew what they were going for so I answered yes.  Homeschoolers, as well as anyone else in this country, have the right to purchase any book they want and teach what they believe to be true. Interestingly enough, as I believe I pointed out earlier, the Apologia books (which started this debate I think) do not dismiss the theory of evolution.  They present the evidence and facts that exist and leave the student to decide.  We’ve used these books all through middle and high school so I am familiar with them.

I believe in teaching what evolution is but I believe in teaching creationism as true.  The Bible makes much more sense to me than Darwin’s theory of evolution.  It’s okay if others don’t agree and want to teach something different.  I’m not going to try to force you to teach what I believe and you shouldn’t try to force me.

I stand firm on the word of God though and He says that one day every knee will bow and every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord. I believe that to be true and I would rather do that now by choice than wait until Judgment day and say it because it’s the only option left.  One day the Truth will be known.

I think I’ve said enough now.  If you’re still reading, thanks for “listening” to my rant.  :)

Mar
01

Beth Moore

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I know Beth Moore has been around for awhile and I know a lot of women have read her books, done her Bible studies, and attended her events but I have not been one of them.  Until this month.  And she is FABULOUS!  I wish I had been introduced to her stuff sooner!!!  I am now anxious to check out some more of her stuff!!  Have any of you ever done any of her Bible studies?  If so, which one did you like best?

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I realize that this book has been on this site for awhile as a book I’m reading.  I obviously haven’t been reading it for months but just haven’t taken the time to work on this blog and update things.  Well, it’s definitely time for that! :)   Here is my review of this book that has been a long time coming!

Title: The Karma of Jesus

Author: Mark Herringshaw

ISBN: 978-0-7642-0734-1

Genre: Non-Fiction; Religious; Spirituality

Pages: 206

Publisher: Bethany House

Rating: 4 stars

This was a GREAT book!  I have to admit I was skeptical of it at first simply because of the title.  There seem to be so many people nowadays mixing religions and making up their own as well as saying that any path you choose is the right path.  I’m tired of that kind of gobbleygook (don’t you love my description of it!  haha!) and I want a book by an author who knows Truth and isn’t afraid to talk about it.  Well, this book delivered in my opinion.  Mark Herringshaw does a good job of teaching about Christ and the love that He gave to us.  He compares the concept of karma with the forgiveness that we receive from God and explains how we can receive God’s perfect love and forgiveness.  He weaves some wonderful stories into the book and it’s actually one of those books that was hard to put down!  I would highly recommend it!!

Check out this article about a man who built an exact replica of Noah’s ark.  I first saw it at Now That’s Nifty.  I LOVE this story!  I only wish it were somewhere close so I could visit it myself! :)

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Oct
16

CD Review: Kari Jobe

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Title: Kari Jobekari-jobe

Song list:

  • I’m Singing
  • Healer
  • Everyone Needs a Little
  • Joyfully
  • Beautiful
  • My Beloved
  • Singing Over Me
  • No Sweeter Name
  • Be Still
  • Sweep Me Away
  • Revelation Song
  • You Are For Me

Manufacturer: Integrity Music

My husband recently went to the Catalyst conference and came back with a bag full of goodies!  In the bag was this CD so I had to check it out.  I really liked it!  It has great, soothing music that is so worshipful!  She has a beautiful voice and the songs are superb!

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Title: Lavender & Peachlavender

Author: Mae O’Steen-Grant

ISBN: 978-1-4327-3910-2

Genre: Religion, Christian Life

Pages: 257

Publisher: OutskirtsPress.com

Rating: 2 stars

I’m really sorry to say that I just really didn’t get this book.  It seemed to just go in circles and I felt very confused the whole time I was reading it.   I only read part of the book as I could not figure out exactly what the point was.  I finally just decided I needed to move on to something else.  So, unfortunately, this book is not a book I would recommend.

Andy Stanley was the guest speaker at our church this weekend and while I really appreciated his message and what he had to say, there were some things he said that I didn’t totally agree with.  I don’t know if I just didn’t get what he was trying to say or if he really meant it the way I took it.

The point of the message was that there is a place for everyone at church – it doesn’t matter who you are or what you’ve done, there is a place for you.  I wholeheartedly agree with that.  Everyone should be welcomed when they step into a church.

The part that I had a problem with was at the beginning.  He started his sermon by saying that local churches need to be careful about not making church a place for “church people” – an “insider” thing – that they shouldn’t do things or say things that might make someone who has never been in church uncomfortable, that we need to make sure that we don’t use language that these same people would not be able to understand, and things like that.

This is where I disagree with him.  It seems to me that the main function of the church is for believers to gather in order to worship God and fellowship with one another.  It’s a time to come together each week and refocus ourselves and make sure that we are living as God wants us to be.  It’s a time for teaching and learning but most of all – for worshipping.

While I believe that taking people to church is a fabulous thing to do and great way to try to evangelize, I don’t believe that churches should be designed for unbelievers.  Yes, we need to take the time to welcome them; yes, we need to take the time to explain things they might not understand; but no, we should not be watering things down so as not to make someone uncomfortable who might be there just checking things out.

There are all kinds of programs and classes we can set up for unbelievers, new Christians, or people just checking things out.  A classroom setting or a small group setting, in my opinion, is a better way to get things on a level that someone who has not grown up in church might feel comfortable with and be able understand.

Corporate worship should be just that – worship.  And that’s something believers do.

What are your thoughts on the matter?  Do you agree or do you see things differently?  You can even watch his message and get your own personal take on what he said.  The part I’m talking about is only about the first five or ten minutes of the message.  Come back and let me know if you do!  I’d love to know what others think about it!

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